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Description:However, I would suspect that people who are attracted to BDSM probably have a high need for orderliness, and have a fond appreciation of rules and boundaries. This is in contrast to more ordinary disagreeableness in everyday life which is usually seen as annoying and rude. This difference in preference for controlling or being controlled may well relate to differences in agreeableness between these two groups. The thinking behind this is that such people like to have a way of compensating for the pressure of command and experiencing a sense of relief from the burden of being responsible for others. However, the small amount of research evidence available suggests that these assumptions are probably not true. Rejection sensitivity and need for approval, like neuroticism, are negatively correlated with subjective well-being, so the fact that doms scored low on these measures may well account for their high levels of subjective well-being.

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